What is gay chastity device？and Some ideas for gay men when using a chastity cage.

In the diverse landscape of sexual kinky,one that stands out is the practice of chastity play.

What is gay chastity device？

Chastity devices are a type of kinky sex toy designed for erection and orgasm denial. For gay men, this often refers to Chastity Cages and Chastity Belts. Occasionally, it may also include Locking Butt Plugs, which fall under Anal Chastity. Today, we're mainly discussing cages. If you're interested in anal Chastity as well, feel free to check out our collection of anal toys.

Chastity cages, also known as cock cages, come in various styles with different sizes, colors, and materials. But they all have one purpose: to put your penis in a cage, preventing you from getting an erection and having an orgasm.

Why are more and more gay men putting on chastity cages?

Nowadays, using chastity cages has become really popular among gay men as a sex kink or fetish. Whether it's on social media platforms like Twitter or Instagram, discussion forums like Reddit or Quora, or even on gay man porn sites, there are countless gay males talking about and sharing ideas related to this kink. Here are the main points.

Exploration of Kinks and Fetishes

Many times, a chastity cage is considered a form of BDSM. People use them as part of BDSM games, bondage or puppy play. Being locked is one of the ultimate services slave can provide. The chastity cage becomes the ultimate proof of your loyalty to the master. When someone else has the key to your chastity cage, they have taken control of both your organ and your sexual pleasure. You have to endure the torment of the cock and ball, as a tool of service to others. You will be sexually aroused by this humiliation.However, can you imagine? Giving away the key is one of part of the best thrill of wearing a chastity cage.

Dominance and Submission

Some guys find pleasure in giving up control or having control taken away from others.  Chastity cages are often associated with dominance and submission.  Some gay men are interested in taking a more submissive role in sex game, willingly enclosing their cock in a cage and give the key to their partner. In the initial days or even weeks, the cage can be uncomfortable. However, for a submissive man, this discomfort is part of the thrill. As time passes, you realize that the longer you are locked, the more fired up you become, discovering more ways to pleasure your partner. You may enjoy feeling completely dependent on that man, knowing that only he has the power to unlock you.

Enhanced Sexual Pleasure

Wearing a chastity cage can keep many men in a constant state of arousal. When your cock securely locked in this chastity cage, you'll be constantly horny with no way to release it. The anticipation of being unlocked can intensify pleasure. when it’s time to exit the cage, the sexual pleasure is more explosive than ever before.  Because your cock is locked up and unable to cum, your nipples and ass become more sensitive. Since you can't stimulate your penis, other zones store up the horniness.This makes you focus not on your penis but only on your slut asshole, allowing you to feel how much you want to be fucked.

Chastity is Lifestyle

For some men, wearing a chastity cage is a lifestyle choice. They wear a chastity device almost every day. Many men even share their experiences of staying locked on platforms like Reddit. When one guy says that staying locked makes him horny, unable to cum, and all that, it sounds really hot, but he swears he almost cracks. Other men encourage him to stay locked for longer. For those who consider the chastity cage a way of life, being caged for an extended period gives them a lot of energy, stamina, and a build-up of testosterone. With all this sexual energy they can't release, they channel it into activities like going to the gym. Staying caged, unable to jerk off, gives them a masochistic thrill that they become addicted to.

how to choose a chastity cage for you？

Whether you're into sensory play in various kinky ways or you consider the chastity cage a lifestyle choice, if you're already one of the converted ones, I want to give you some ideas on how to choose a suitable chastity cage for yourself. Whether you're a beginner or a more experienced player, I hope it will be helpful for you.  

If you're a beginner, go for soft silicone or something lightweight.

If you are a beginner, it's important to start with an easier-to-wear chastity cage.  Silicone is a durable, comfortable, and flexible material, perfect for someone who is diving into chastity.  When you put it on, it feels like a thick condom or a penis sheath, custom-made for your cock, but it's firm enough to securely lock up your penis. you can still get an erection, but the feeling of your cock struggling against its cage will soon be so torturous, so your penis gives up and goes back to being soft. It takes two to three weeks of on-and-off wear for it to adjust and form to your body.  After a while, you'll get used to having the hard chastity cage between your legs.  Your erections become less frequent and less intense, and you'll get accustomed to being a man locked in a cage.

However, please remember that comfort and the specific cage that excites you are individual preferences.  You might need to try a couple of different cages before finding the perfect one for you.

If you're an experienced player, you can try out different types of cages.

When you've successfully passed the beginner stage, now you'll enjoy having a cage under your crotch, and you won't feel awkward anymore. Congratulations, you can explore most types, materials, and sizes of cages available in the market. You can try a solid design and a metal cage with some weight, experiencing the feeling of a firm squeeze with hard metal. The power of such a metal cage lies in the fact that your cock will be in prison, and there will be no way to escape without the key.

You can even wear the chastity cage to restaurants, dates, or work. For this, you'll need a cage made of lightweight yet durable material. You might also consider wearing a jockstrap or a thong, along with pants, to smooth the appearance from the outside. It will look like you're just an ordinary guy, and no one will know that your dick is locked in a cage. This little secret can also make you feel incredibly thrilled and excited.

If you're a businessman who frequently travels through airports, you can wear a plastic device that tightly binds your cock, preventing erections. These devices are usually not detected by TSA or body scanners.

At this stage, wearing a cage becomes an integral part of everyday life.

If you're an Seasoned Players, those special cage are waiting for you

When you are completely immersed in the chastity game, you can try those more kinky challenges. you have the possibility to make your cage smaller and smaller as you get more used to this games. Give those ultra small cages a try for your sissy dick.

Smart devices controlled by an app are a great choice. Your key holder could be someone online. With global control and within the battery life, your master has full control. This provides you with a sense of forced chastity pleasure.

For those naughty boy, there's the option of an electric shock-enabled cage. If you misbehave as a submissive, your dominant can use the app to give you electric shocks as punishment.The combination between pleasure and pain will be close to unbearable and definitely like nothing else you ever experienced.With this device, you get double the punishment and double the fun.

Some ideas for gay men when using a chastity cage

Shave your pubic hair tightly before putting on the cage, as long hair can make the process difficult and trapped hair will feel painful.

Use baby oil to lubricate the chastity cage and your intimate areas before wearing it. Always keep a small bottle of baby oil handy to ensure smoothness and prevent chafing.

Opt for tighter clothes in your daily activities as they keep the cage closer to your body, reducing friction and minimizing the risk of blisters.
If the cage starts irritating your skin, remove it after a couple of hours. Don't rush into staying locked; it's a gradual process that typically takes two to three weeks.

Ensure your cage doesn't inconvenience others in public. It's crucial to respect others' boundaries and not involve them in your kink without their consent.

The concept of wearing a chastity cage originated in the gay community but has expanded beyond sexual orientation. No matter who you are, remember, safety, trust, and clear communication are vital in any BDSM activity, including chastity play.