Why are more and more men fascinated by chastity cages? We interviewed 10 men with experience in wearing chastity cages. Some tried it for the first time, while others have made it a long-term habit. Let's see how they explain this phenomenon.
@Smart
I'm a man who likes men. I enjoy BDSM and am a submissive, but currently don't have a dominant partner. So, I put on a chastity cage by myself. The moment I saw the cage, I fell in love with the feeling it gave me. It also helps me reduce masturbation, which has been excessive since high school, sometimes several times a day. I don't have a key holder, so I wear it on and off, a few days at a time.
I want to share a truth with everyone: as long as you don't wear a cage that's much smaller than your penis or keep it locked for six months to a year without unlocking, you don't have to worry about your penis getting smaller. I hope to meet more guys who like cages.
@wuffelto
Wearing a chastity cage on and off for a year has taught me a lot. The cage doesn't suppress desires; it actually makes them stronger.
At first, it's uncomfortable. The cage consists of two parts: the ring and the cage itself. The ring goes around the balls and can cause discomfort due to friction.
Initially, sleeping can be hard, and nocturnal erections might wake you up in pain. I suggest wearing it during the day instead. Over time, you get used to the size of the cage and can switch to a smaller one. After a while, morning wood stops happening.
Most cages can pass through regular security checks, but airport security is stricter. If you're worried about embarrassment, it's best to take it off.
Wearing the cage, I've discovered other sensitive spots on my body. Lately, I can cum just by playing with my nipples. It's been an amazing experience. For those with boyfriends, try gently touching his nipples while he wears the cage. The results can be surprisingly good.
@Jay-Sage
Starting to wear a chastity cage involves overcoming many challenges. When you put it on for the first time, there's a strong sense of shame, especially when seeing your shaved, smooth cock in contrast with the metal cage. It's exciting and thrilling.
Being locked up brings a strong sense of belonging, making you want to kneel at the feet of your key holder. Since your cock is restrained, sensations in other areas are amplified!
However, be cautious at the beginning. Don't go for a cage that's too small. The right fit is the best. A cage smaller than your penis size shouldn't be worn for too long. Be gentle when putting it on. If you have a big fat cock, be careful not to hurt the skin poking out of the cage. Try not to walk too much right after wearing it to avoid chafing. For beginners, I recommend starting with a soft silicone cage. It lets you experience the shame of being locked up without too much discomfort when erect.
@Andre
After I first put on a chastity cage, I understood why people say, "Whether you're a sub or dom, once a man thinks about locking his cock in a cage, there's no going back." This sounds like a theory from Inception, but it's true. The chastity cage has a magical power. The first time I wore it, I felt excited, ashamed, and stimulated. It has a heavy presence, making my cock sway as I walk. The silicone cage constantly rubs against my cock, making me want to get hard, yet it's somewhat painful, so I have to try my hardest not to. It's a part of my body, yet when I try to touch it, I can't, which leaves me feeling helpless and desperate. This experience deeply intoxicates me.
@Birdlife
Physically: I feel so uncomfortable.
Mentally: I feel so good.
@sy_gibran
Wearing the cage instantly takes away all masculine power. Suddenly, the most sensitive parts of my body are my asshole and nipples. My legs feel weak, and I just want to kneel and please other men. It's a strange feeling. I was a dom before, but after experiencing the cage, I find being a sub quite comfortable too.
@Pup_aww
When I first wore it, I felt a tightness. I really wanted to take it off halfway through, but I chose to silently persevere to challenge myself. My cock cage is made of metal, very heavy, constantly there whether I'm awake or asleep in the middle of the night. Peeing with the cage on is frustrating; I end up peeing on my hand, so I can't stand to pee anymore. This makes me feel ashamed, but why is it also a bit thrilling?
Once, while drinking with my buddies, one bro noticed my crotch was unusually bulging and asked if I had taken Viagra. He went straight to touch it and ended up feeling the metal cage. I was extremely embarrassed.
Going through security checks is even more nerve-wracking. Every time my crotch beeps, I can only pull out a Zippo lighter from my pocket so the security officer would let me go. So, everyone, keep something in your pocket when going through security checks!
@Thebestjosh
I like wearing a Chastity Cage, especially for my boyfriend. He's my boyfriend and my dom. I love the heavy metal cock cage. Whenever I want to touch myself during the lock-up, I only feel the cold metal. It reminds me that I'm wearing it for my boyfriend, he owns my cock, and without my master's permission, my cock can't be used for anything else.
I enjoy this sense of humiliation. Only my dom can decide when and how I can be released, usually allowing me to cum once every 7 to 10 days. Since my boyfriend holds the key, I'm always thinking about pleasing him while I'm locked. Later, he switched me to a smart chastity cage, which he can control through an app on his phone, no matter where he is. It feels like there's an invisible leash on me, and I've become his loyal little dog.
Showering is the only time I can clean and remove the lock, but it's under my boyfriend's supervision. If I'm at home, it has to be in front of him; if we're long distance, I have to turn on the video for him to watch.
To me, the chastity lock is like a wedding ring. I want to wear it for my boyfriend forever, hiding our mutual promises and the memories we share together.
@Padawan
As a sub who has worn a chastity cage for five years, I'm qualified to answer. Once, when playing with my master, I was spanked while bending over. I really wanted to get erect, but the slightest erection would immediately fill up the entire cage. To get a chance to unlock, I'm willing to do anything, no matter how humiliating. The constant, tolerable pain really messes with my mind and dignity. My attention keeps focusing on my lower body, only work or chores can distract me. It's easy to get distracted and lose focus while working.
@Alex
For clothing, it's better to wear underwear with strong support, like big pouch, briefs, or jockstraps.I mostly wear jockstraps in the summer. I also have thongs, but I find jockstraps suit me better.
To sleep comfortably, I can only lie on my front, with a pillow under my thighs and legs apart. Sometimes I wake up feeling swollen in the middle of the night. Before, it used to be pain that woke me up, but now my body has gotten used to it, and it's just swelling. At those times, I just get up, take a deep breath, and going to the bathroom helps. Stay calm, think of something unhappy or other messy thoughts. I know some people wear the cage because they like this feeling.
A few years ago, when I had circumcision surgery, the doctor prescribed medication to suppress erections, but my mother refused to let me take it because she thought it was harmful. During my hospital stay, I would wake up in pain from erections, always fearing the wound had split. Waking up alone at night, staring at the ceiling in the dark, searching for a balance in the pain, I'd think of unhappy or uncomfortable things to cool down my heart and eventually soften, which was even more painful than wearing the cage. If you see or think of something arousing while locked up, it can be very troublesome. There's always something reminding you to stay calm, restrained, and clear-minded. Being locked while indulging in desires, teetering on the edge of wanting but not having, is what interests most people.
Locking up is a form of restraint, controlling the most basic desires to achieve a state of delayed gratification; handing over the key is also handing over power, the highest level of trust. By restraining immediate pleasure to achieve greater pleasure later, that's the joy I find in wearing a cage.